Black is Bold,Black is Beautiful

In India, beauty and fairness are synonymous terms (though south is an exception but even there also being fair is a respectful idea ).Indians don’t only have fad for fair color
But in fact they are mad for it, not only females but also males aspire to be fair (that’s why some one like
Shahrukh khan needs to endorse fairness cream for male) you take up a matrimonial and a very common sentence
Which you will comes across is wanted a fair, beautiful blah blah blah bride for a blah blah blah.In a country where
Being fair is almost the first requisite for being beautiful a dark complexion is nothing less than an anathema (at least
it holds true for the female specie).

But there is a paradox, while the middle class and the lower class do crave badly for fair color the higher echelon
Of the society negates this presumption, if one will carefully study bollywood one will definitely see
That if a comparison being done between dark skinned actress and fair skinned ones the darker race will definitely out number
It’s fairer counter part.Not only actress like Konkana sensharma or naandita das who are more into art house cinema rather than being with commercial genre have got earthy looks but in the present scenario some of the most successful commercial actresses like Priyanka chopra, Deepika padukone ,Sameera reddy, Bipasha basu ,Asin are dark skinned. Then we have
Got some one like lara dutta and amrita rao who are though not dark but are of wheatish complexion .Well there is still no dearth of fair looking actresses like Ashwariya rai,Sushmita sen ,Vidya balan etc but with the large no of dark skinned actress present right now we can surely say that the old saying that beauty and fairness synonymous t doesn’t match the ground reality, not only in bollywood but even in the modeling world some dark skinned models have achieved the sky,be it ujjwala raut(the model who went international),shweta menon or indrani dasgupta(my favorite) .
So what has become so special with this dark complexion that suddenly it has become so fashionable? One thing is surely the fact that dark complexion is some how more sexier than the fair one, at least I believe so. Who else can forget hot and dusky Bipasha flashing her skin in Jism or sensual sameera reddy coming out of water in a white bikni in race. Even in the time of 70’s and 80’s both the so called sex sirens ie Jinat aman and Parveen babi where dusky but the most important reason lies in the fact that the world around us is changing ,at least the youth is . The gen x is ready to experiment,they are ready to break the norm,no more are they interested in restricting them selves to the same old adages, for them fair is beautiful but so is black. The new generation definitely has got a very diversified taste where complexion no more matters ,what does matter is your attitude and the way you are presenting yourself, if you have got the right mixture of style, confidence and presentation you will surely have a space to carve your niche. Not only have the audience changed but so have these actresses and model who are an integral part of this confident and vibrant GEN X.The way in which they are representing themselves with the cock tail of style, smartness and attitude definitely helps in quadrupling there beauty Lets hope that this very same freshness and newness which had swarmed the upper echelons of the society must percolate down to the wider mass.it’s evening time.Just say Amen

god,beleifs and my journey towards knowing the true meaning of life(part 1)

Here in this post of mine I will like to write a commentary on my belief system
and my faith. In the beginning itself I will like to make it very clear that as much my faith is concern I have never held a concrete view point, for me it had always been a flexible affair (at least in my younger days).From time to time my beliefs have been influenced by various factors ranging from parental influence, my own experiences and of course my reading. Since I guess my belief system is something which keeps on changing or rather evolving with richer experiences of life so I will like to run this post continuously in various parts. Here is the first part that basically deals with my beliefs and faiths of my child hood. Being born and brought up into a conservative maithil Brahmin family the faith and belief system of my childhood was highly influenced by general hindu faiths and rituals. I use to go to temples, use to pray in front of idols, use to ask for pardon after committing some mistake and on encountering some trouble use to pray for help from the god. As a kid I loved listening to mythological stories, watching epics like Mahabharata and Ramayana and reading short stories from hindu mythologies. Like every other kid of my age I believed that god resides some where in the sky and he keeps on watching us all. As taught by my family I did believe in the concepts of sin and always tried my level best to abstain my self from wrong doing, the fear was always there( though definitely this concept of fear is the biggest hindrance in a man’s journey towards knowing the truth but with my own experience I can say that it also checks you from doing wrong,to be very frank it was this fear of being punished by god which helped me evolve into a more or less ethical and upright person.)To sum up I will say my childhood was like a normal hindu boy whose mentality was laced with general hindu beliefs .Two of my favorite deities where lord Shiva and mother Durga.My love for lord shiva was due to his simple(but mystical nature) and his maverick attitude and my love for mother durga was an outcome of my upbringing in Bengal where durga puja is celebrated with great effervescence and mirth every year.

But inside this whole music of thoughts sometimes a cacophony of doubt tried to peep outside. The doubt was based on a very logical presumption. What I supposed was that fine I have a belief system and a set of deities whom I believe but the same set of thought is not shared by people of different religions,exp there are muslims and Christian who don’t believe in lord shiva or goddess durga .They have there own belief systems, now dismissing there belief system just on account of the fact that they aren’t in accordance of my view point was strictly a no no for me but at the same stage of time I was not in position to drop my own view points since they were not only close to my heart but some where inside my mind I was also fearful of such a drastic step.

20-20 cricket:men in blue needs introspection & contemplation

In 2007 under the guidance of meticulous mahi india created sensation all around the globe by winning the 20-20 world cup.Then after few days the same men in blue continued their winning expedition by defeating Australia in an another match at there home turf thus Shutting up the blabbering ponting who had earlier commented that India’s win at the world cup was just a fluke. After this there had been no looking back for dhoni as well as for The whole team, India continued to deliver it’s magnificent performance at test as well as one day cricket but the very same format of 20 -20 cricket which the team one’s mastered Very diligently is proving out to be a tough nut to crack.Team had repeatedly shown poor performance in this format of cricket and the latest defeat at the hands of west indies should be treated as the final testimony for this,now where does the team really lag,well with big hitters like sehwag,dhoni,yuvi,pathan brothers run machines like raina ,gambhir and rohit and with a whole barrack of killer bowlers team India has got no dearth of talent.The problem with the team is there strategy ,there approach towards the game and to some extent there over confidence.here in this post I will like to dissect each and every problem of the team India one by one and will like to suggest some remedial steps for it.

1.OVERCONFIDENCE:team is still not in a position to come out of the hang over of the past.the world cup 2007 is over so simply getting stick to it will serve no purpose .One should always keep this in mind that in a fast format of cricket like 20-20 you cannot have any favorite.20-20 is something highly unpredictable Its imperative for the team that it must come out of shackles of the past and should drop the favorite tag from its mind as soon as possible, it will help the team to come up with a fresh strategy ,the very same freshness and newness that helped us win the 2007 world cup.

2.EARLY LOSS OF WICKETS: if one will carefully look upon the past few matches one factor that had always been common is the early loss of wickets, from the very beginning the strategy of the team had been to make a huge score, to achieve this the top order batsman starts making big shots from the very first bowl which eventually ends up in loosing wicket, once you loose two three early wickets pressure builds in and then the middle order batsmen become defensive which ends up in loosing a great deal of over. The right strategy for the team should be to show some degree of patient in the earlier over (that doesn’t mean that loose bowls should be spared) and instead of trying to send every bowl over the boundary they should try to set themselves in the first 4/5 over and then should go for attack.


3.M.S .DHONI:HIT MAN HAD EVOLVED INTO A PEDDLER: when dhoni started his international cricket he was known for his big hits which was often devastating for the opponents,this helped him winning millions of fan world wide.But once he became the captain the very same player who was once a hit man had become a peddler, once known for his big hits dhoni is now more into rotating strikes, though this had been helpful for the team in excelling in one day cricket where dhoni’s new avatar helps the team to stabilize in case of early fall of wickets and to win games while chasing decent targets. But this had been detrimental for the team in 20-20 format,it had been noticed that dhoni often wastes a great chunk of bowls(the last match against west indies where he made 11 out of 23 bowls is some thing which should be strictly unacceptable for a 20-20 match.)Dhoni should play the way he wants to play in 50-50 game but when it comes to a 20-20 match which has just 120 bowls to go he should in fact he must try to play as bombastic as he can. This will be judicious not only for the team but will also be an entertaining affair for his myriad fans spread all around the globe.

4.GHAMBIR NEEDS TO BE A BIT MORE FAST:when it comes to one day international cricket and test cricket gautam gambhir aka gauti is the perfect weapon in armory of Indian team ,his big innings with decent enough stike rates caters the need of the team India very well but in a fast and furious format like 20-20 his slightly more than 100 strike rate does not suit well with the aspiration of team India to win the 20-20 world cup second time in a row. His knock of 50 out of 46 against Bangladesh might would have been an applauding affair had it been a one day international match but for a 20-20 match it was a bit sluggish deal. In a 20 -20 format it does not matter whether you are hitting a 50, a 60 or a 70 .What does matter is that your strike rate .Even 35 or a 40 by gambhir with a very high strike rate would have been far better than his elegant 50, being an opener gauti needs to be a bit more fast .


5.FIELDING:with time Indian fielding has improved and India has got some very good fielders like gautam gambhir,rohit sharma and raina ,but still when compared to some of the best fielding sides like south Africa or Australia India still needs to improve. Indian fielding lacks sharpness .We have got some very good fielders but as a whole team we are still not intact in our fielding . We still miss catches,stumpings. Miss fielding is still not infrequent. Even in the last match against WI there were two silly miss fielding which cost us us 8 runs,a wonder ful run out opportunity was wasted by dhoni,had bravo been shown the pavilion things might would have turned out the other way round. Our resplendent men really need to put some extra effort on there fielding.


These are some of the fields where team India really needs to improve upon. India still has 2 more games to play in super 8 against the very same South Africa and England whom it defeated in the last world cup’s super 8 to book its berth in the semis .With the combination of right strategy, hard work and the display of good game both on and off the field India can repeat it’s magic which it one’s did in South Africa some 2 years back .

Hope must prevail

The following article was written by me some six months bag when i was packing my bag for infosys.Though right now i have quit my job but still i think the post will be highly motivating for those readers who will be starting there career or will be joining the wagon of job search.

In the light of sub prime crisis the whole world is going through economic down turn...gone r those days of blue chip jobs,bullish market n spending spree ....every where pink slips r spiralling day by day,sensex is touching ground n cost cutting is d norm ............in d middle of all such turmoils many yuppies r gearing up 4 there maiden job assignment...me being one of them can get the touch of that fear factor..of that obvious anxieties n apprehensions....but the point 2 be remembered is that every aspect of this universe is a part of a cycle n d economy is nt an exception.....so if today its is sliding down tomorrow it will fly high sun will rise again n so will d warmth..but what is imperative over here is that this learning oppurtunities should nt be squandered at any cost ,as kites fly highest against the wind n nt with it so r gr8 proffessionals r made during recession n nt in boom(remember branson)....so friends dont worry .There was a dream seen in d summer of 91.. D building of that dream might b shaking but d base is intact n it will remain intact provided d fire of passion should keep on burning some where inside us...d facade of wisdom should prevail over short shighted fantasies.....n our dream of making india an economic giant should smoulder in our heart before ending i will like 2 tell all my friendsdare,fight ,struggle,adapt,negotiate ,win celebrate n at the end of the day evolve as better professionals better citizen n last but nt d least as better human beings

I am not a player but the game itself

During my school days i was inclined towards poetry.But from the past few years i was completely disconnected from poetry.Now today all of a sudden there was a deep urge to right a poem.So tried my hand in writing a short poem which in my opinion is more an attempt towards bragging my supremacy rather than a poem.



I am not a player But d game itself,
I am not a wave But d energy itself,
I am not a lover But d love itself,
I am not a thought but d mind itself,
I am not a villain But d destruction itself,
I am not a phenomenon But d concept itself,
In the end i will just say,
I am nt an entity But d existence itself.